Men and Nail Polish?

Most of us guys know the importance of seeking out — and creating — environments that are conducive to positive spousal response. The longer you're married, the more you are aware of those negative and positive environments and how they can affect your marriage relationship.

For example, I've learned that completing my Saturday to-do list can mean the difference between a happy wife and a lonely weekend. A completed to-do list makes a happy wife. I know this through experience.

I know Sheri needs quality couch time every day. This is where we sit close and I make eye contact while listening to how her day went. This is something I need to do...

I've learned what speaks to my wife. Since Sheri has the Love Language of Household Tasks, I know that a strategic floor washing could lay the groundwork for a special romantic evening.

It's not rocket science. It's about learning what speaks to your wife's heart.

Recently, friends of ours did an anniversary getaway — something I highly recommend. While away, my friend surprised his wife with a spa day. This is where women cover their eyes with cucumbers and listen to soft music while enjoying a diverse menu of treatments including manicures, facials and wraps. Great idea. It's therapy for the body.

My friend went the extra mile. He treated his wife to a couple's pedicure and manicure. This is where while seated next to your wife, you both receive the body treatments — including clear polish applied to your toes and fingers.

That gift spoke to his wife in amazing ways. She felt honored and cherished.

• What creative ways have you gifted your wife?
• How far would you go?
• Will you take her to see the next chick flick?
• Would you take her shoe shopping?
• Have you ever shared a bubble bath with her?
• Would you do the couple spa treatment — with nail polish?